Zoom Date Conversation Topics to Charm Your Virtual Boo


Zoom Date Conversation Topics to Charm Your Virtual Boo

If someone had woken you up on January 1st, 2020 and told you that soon your entire dating life would revolve around a software used for company Powerpoint presentations, you’d probably laugh that person out of the room. But unfortunately the reality of the pandemic has been that any social interaction is supposed to happen at least six-feet away, and ideally while not even in the same room. Going on a Zoom date is unfortunately all we’ve got (thoughts and prayers for those whose love language is Physical Touch).

We’ve all resolved to go on virtual video chat dates to attempt to get to know each other in the middle of this IRL Black Mirror episode that is 2020. Zoom dates, FaceTime dates, and Houseparty chats and Whatsapp convos have been propping up our dating lives as best as they can, but it’s still super awkward to get used to this new form of 2D communication. What do you even talk about? How do you flirt? What are 100% verbal dates even supposed to be like? We’ve put together some unique conversation topics for you to charm and seduce your zoom date as best as humanly possible.

The Pandemic

  • What would you be doing right at this moment if we weren’t in quarantine?
  • What’s the weirdest adjustment you’ve had to make during lockdown?
  • Do you feel like quarantine has changed you in any way?
  • If you could safely travel anywhere right now, where would you go?
  • Who in your life have you missed being in the room with the most?


  • What’s your favorite thing about your hometown?
  • What was the dumbest thing you and your friends ever did in high school?
  • Would you have changed anything about your upbringing?
  • What’s your favorite childhood memory?
  • What’s something your family does that you didn’t realize was weird until you got older?
Lounge on your couch while Facetime chatting with your virtual date on your phone
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City Life

  • What’s your favorite neighborhood to hang out in?
  • Do you have any hidden gem restaurants I might like?
  • Do you feel like you belong here?
  • What’s your favorite street to walk down in our city?
  • What do you think is our most underrated attraction?


  • What’s the worst date you’ve ever been on?
  • Have you ever kissed someone you weren’t supposed to kiss?
  • What celebrity fits into your ‘type?’
  • What’s your biggest dating pet peeve?
  • Where would you want us to go on non-Zoom date IRL?

Sexy Time

  • What’s the weirdest thing that’s ever turned you on?
  • What do you think we’d be doing if we were in the same room?
  • What’s your favorite body part on a partner?
  • What three words would you use to describe your style in bed?
  • What was your worst sex mishap?
Laughing on your quarantine Zoom call is a must when you're dating from home
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  • What’s your favorite weird food combination?
  • What’s the best compliment you’ve ever gotten?
  • What’s your most common recurring dream?
  • What’s the most stereotypical thing about you?
  • Pick a scar and tell me a story.


  • What’s the most surprising song you know all the words to?
  • If you could bring back one fashion item from another era, what would it be?
  • What movie storyline best represents your life?
  • What’s the most unexpected thing you’re kind of an expert at?
  • What cocktail best represents your personality?


  • What’s been your go-to binge watching show during quarantine?
  • If you could make any underrated celeb more respected, who would it be?
  • What actor’s career would you want if you were an actor?
  • What’s your guilty pleasure trashy reality TV show?
  • What celebrity couple’s relationship would you want to have?
A Facetime video chat make for the perfect first date during quarantine
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  • What’s the last thing that made you laugh hysterically?
  • What’s the best thing someone has ever talked you into doing?
  • What was one thing in life you regret eating?
  • When was the last time you got scammed?
  • What’s the best dollar you’ve ever spent?


  • If you could have a mating call, what would it sound like?
  • If you met you would you two get along?
  • When you sing “Happy Birthday,” what note do you start on?
  • If you were a cartoon what outfit would you permanently wear?
  • If you had to get a face tattoo, what would you get?

In the Moment

  • What were you up to before I called?
  • Are you doing anything fun this week?
  • Have you cooked anything good today?
  • What was the best thing that happened to you in the past 24 hours?
  • What are your plans for the rest of the day?
With a laptop you can go on a virtual date right from your bed during quarantine
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  • What’s the most ridiculous thing you would love to get paid to do?
  • If your entire work industry didn’t exist, what would you choose 2nd?
  • Do your goals for yourself today match the ones you had when you were 5?
  • What’s something you learned about yourself recently that surprised you?
  • What’s the most important goal you’d want to achieve in life?

What questions worked for you during your quarantine Zoom date? Let us know in the comments what other topics have sparked some solid conversation! And don’t forget to pin us on Pinterest:

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